Families of people buried in graves vulnerable to coastal erosion state that indecision on how best to address the issue is causing them avoidable anguish concerning the eternal homes of their loved ones.
Local authorities have identified three burial grounds in the villages of Happisburgh, Trimingham, and Mundesley as being in danger of being engulfed by the ocean in the coming decades.
A recent report on the situation details a range of possible actions, from taking no action to exhuming remains and relocating them in safer sites. Officials maintain it is for local people to decide how to proceed.
“Right now we’re in a state of uncertainty. It causes me distress. My parents wanted this to serve as their last home, but it won't be because of the encroaching sea.”
Estimates indicate at least a portion of one churchyard could fall into the waves in the next 80 years, but some residents worry it will happen much sooner. “I think it’s got under 20 years, if you look at what’s happened in the last 30 years,” one said.
A local business owner remembered a childhood visit to the nearby settlement of Eccles, which has almost entirely vanished into the water, including its place of worship and burial ground.
“You could see human remains,” she said. “Certain people hold this romantic idea that the deceased will just get carried away to sea. That is not the case. Individuals will take bones as mementos and go grave robbing looking for valuables. That is completely disrespectful.”
“I’m worried that the identical fate that happened at Eccles will happen at Happisburgh and there’ll be bones on the beach. I’d be disgusted by that.”
Along the coast lies the grave of a former paratrooper killed while working abroad. His mother expressed she could not sleep after discovering her child's grave might one day be relocated.
“It truly trouble me to consider this won’t be his permanent home,” she said. “For us it’s an important site to visit.”
In her view, new interments should cease but says it is premature to disturb current plots. “What I would choose for now is to do nothing and watch carefully, but an timely resolution needs to be made when a tipping point has been reached.”
An absence of consensus over the timing and method to handle the challenge has resulted in bereaved families feeling frustrated and anxious.
Several families want additional coastal protections to delay the unavoidable loss and to permit funerals to proceed for now. Others argue the time for moving graves is approaching.
“It is very emotional,” said one relative. “The council’s report was thorough, but now there’s confusion about how it is implemented. And everybody is avoiding responsibility over who is accountable.”
A local official confirmed the graveyards were under the care of the local diocese. “In the end it is up to them to choose the path to take. We are here to help support them through that process with residents.”
He added there was time to consider all the choices. “This concerns decades before it starts to be lost.”
“There is no unified opinion on what should happen yet. It requires good community discussions to discover the appropriate answers for each community.”
The prospect of the loss of the churches and graveyards was labeled one of “profound sadness for the area,” but faith leaders also spoke of a doctrine in life after death, providing a spiritual viewpoint on the physical loss of hallowed earth.
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